Hilary Duff Shares Intimate Family Photos in Birthday Tribute for Matthew Koma

Hilary Duff is making sure husband Matthew Koma is feeling all the love on his 38th birthday!

On Monday, June 2, Duff, 37, honored her husband’s special day with an Instagram post, revealing intimate family photos over the years.

One photo in the carousel shows the Lizzie McGuire star and Koma in bed together as Duff cuddles one of their daughters. The couple, who tied the knot in December 2019, are parents to three daughters — Banks Violet Bair, 6; Mae James Bair, 4; and Townes Meadow Bair, 1 — as well as 13-year-old Luca Cruz, whom Duff shares with ex-husband Mike Comrie. 

The post also includes a single shot of Duff and Koma in the studio together, a family Easter photoshoot and Koma taking a selfie with their daughters, while dressed in adorable pajamas.

“I can’t compete with your compilation of words but I can share that every one of my days are comfier, funnier, sturdier, and more balanced with you in them,” the mom of four began her touching caption.

“We have celebrated a lot of June 2nds together and since slide nine we’ve tripled in size,” she continued. “I’m so proud of us – making it through some of these days seems impossible but you are always there to cook or pack a meal, keep us caffeinated, carry all the bags, let me add one more stop/plan to our day, have a last minute party, or add a new animal into our already pulling at the seams life. This wild house loves you.”

She added, “You have the most curvy/interesting mind. Truly enthralled and entertained to hear takes from it everyday. I’m lucky our kids are half you & dear god hope they get some filter from me. I hope all your dreams come true this year & and I hope we get a few more Ojai sleeps than the last.”

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Like Duff, Koma also has a way with words when it comes to birthday tribute posts. In honor of Duff’s 36th birthday in September 2023, Koma described the actress as having “ease and grace.”

“You blow me away everyday with your ability to juggle the un-juggle-able… you do it with such ease & grace,” he wrote. “You have an endless well of energy and patience that makes you the super-mom + super-wife you are, all while bringing your wildest dreams to earth level, then still somehow giving a s— about our dogs at the end of the day.”